Start cooking pork: Heat a large skillet over medium-high heat. Once hot, add the onion and pork. Lightly season with salt & pepper, and stir-fry to break up the meat JUST until no longer pink. Use paper towels to drain.
1 yellow onion, 1 pound ground pork, salt & pepper
Brown pork: Place the skillet back over medium-high heat. Add ½ tablespoon oil and continue stir-frying until the pork is cooked through and browning (Note 3).
½ tablespoon oil
Deglaze: Once the pork is browned, add 2-3 tablespoons of water to the skillet to deglaze. Scrape all the browned bits off the bottom of the pan and stir them into the pork mixture (Note 4). Remove the pork to a bowl and set aside.
Cook cabbage: Place the same skillet back over medium-high heat. Add the remaining oil, then add the vegetables and stir fry until wilting. This can take up to 10 minutes, depending on your desired doneness (Note 5).
½ tablespoon oil, 16 oz tri-color coleslaw
Add aromatics: Reduce the heat to medium. Stir the garlic and ginger into the cabbage and stir fry until fragrant, about 2-3 minutes.
3 cloves garlic, 1 inch piece fresh ginger
Finish stir-frying: Add the pork mixture to the cabbage, along with the sauce (whisk through the sauce one more time before pouring it into the skillet.) Increase the heat to medium-high and stir fry for a few minutes, until the sauce is coating the food evenly and the cabbage is done to your liking.Serve immediately (Note 6).
Notes
Note 1: If you don't want to bother with getting a bottle of toasted sesame oil, just use a neutral cooking oil. The flavor will be a little different, but still delicious.
Note 2: Either use a 16-oz bag of tri-color coleslaw, or shed your own. If you shred your own, you'll need ~5 cups shredded white cabbage, 3 cups shredded red cabbage (both not packed), 1 medium grated carrot.
Note: If you choose to shred your own cabbage and grate your own carrots, add at least 15 extra minutes to that prep time.
Note 3: Don’t be afraid to let the food and the skillet gain some color here, it adds a lot of flavor.
Note 4: Don't skip deglazing, all the flavor is concentrated there, plus deglazing at this step prevents your skillet from scorching later.
Note 5: Choose how crunchy you want to leave your cabbage here - either leave it very crisp, or cook it all the way down.
Note 6: Great sides are cooked rice with green onion, sesame seeds, cilantro and sriracha, if you like. You can add sriracha mayo, or stir a little sriracha into sour cream.